If you have a journey to see those that love you and you them: Take care, stay as long as you have planned whatever the circumstances, enjoy the company and do not worry. Unwind. Return. Ring do not email the voice is better than the typed word. Think of the ones you cannot ring for whatever reason. Look after yourself.

For those that are caring for or about someone: The most important person in your life is you. Now is the hole in time which the future rushes through to form the past. Now is important because without now there is no future. Take care of yourself as well as those that you are caring for: without you they may have one less to care for them. It sounds heartless but it is not.
God bless both of you.
Denise

I must clarify a point that I probably put over badly.
1) I am not a Christian but I do hold a religion very firmly. I pray to a god and I am on a journey. I am at this moment in a struggle  (that is the proper meaning of the word "Jehad"). I respect others and their religion. I respect those that do not believe or have yet to be convinced.
2) I am not a fundementalist. (please clarify what a fundementalist is and I hope you do not imply that I fit into the media portrayed image of same).
3) I do know what the Disability Discrimination Act means in it's up to date form. Do you know that the disabled or those that are ill in some way may be deeply offended. Yes disabled people use computers.
4) If comment is made of your own and personal experiences and not just cut and pasted in the hope that it causes a short term laugh then all is well. The cut and pasted blog would be very offensive to people that I CHOOSE to share my time with.

I have recently been persuaded to return to the blog site by a comment posted for me. Thank you so much (sincerely)for those comments they were much appreciated and a help to me during my struggle. I hope that the same person will point this blog in the direction of the cheap laugh brigade.
And with that  say "goodbye" to blog.co.uk
Buddythecat

Well quite a lot really. I thought that somone had let me down! She had not. I was at fault and I said so. Now all is well and back on an even keel. We have promised not to revisit the situation and let the time heal. Someone once told me that there are two tides every day and they wash the footprints from the beach and he was right.
I have bought a few goodies for the new house and I have thrown myself headlong into decorating. It looks good even though there is more paint on me than the walls. I managed to keep the beams clear so there is not too much cleaning up to do.
Amongst all this and whilst paint was drying I have been making use of my National Trust Card and visiting some properties nearby. I have been to a place called the Custard Factory just because it had a name like it did. I went to Shugborough Hall which is a little further away and the home of the Lichfield family (the Lord wot took photos?) It was very impressive but looked as though it is really lived in. I am hoping to continue in this vein but I must find quieter places because the schools have broken up and open spaces tend to be invaded by hoards of kids that go "pond dipping and bug hunting". Moms and dads walk around with glazed looks in their eyes and dread the journey back to Worcester because the kids are tired and hungry whilst smelling of the countryside. I love youngsters really ....... honestly. 
I spent the day out with a handsome young policeman who is thinking of transferring to the Midlands and "really needed a guide." Me? A guide? Does he not know that us ladies cannot read a map? He was a sweetie really but I think that he will miss the life of the suburbs. What burns in Herefordshire? Pity really he was a dish.
I have to use my NT card more because it is too expensive to just sit in the purse doing nothing.
Well bloggers I must find some room in the bathroom and get ready for a swinging night out in rural Warwickshire.
Speak to you all soon
Buddythecat